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Welcome to part-3 of our 3-part Marriage Ready? Series.

We've talked about the "why" and the "goal" of our faith-based, Christ-centered premarital counseling service. Today, I will close out this 3-part series by talking about the "process". What should engaged couples expect after they agree to receive premarital counseling? That's a great question that deserves a good answer. As a master-level-certified Christian Counseling Therapist, my priorities are simple. I begin the process by ensuring each couple enters a welcoming, safe, and friendly atmosphere where intentional conversations can happen. 

Here's what each couple can further expect:

  • Completing the couple's assessment - Before the first counseling session takes place, each couple will individually complete a premarital counseling assessment. This assessment identifies strengths/growth areas, and how each person individually believes and relates to each other in the following areas:
    • Trust and emotional intimacy
    • Family dynamics and boundaries
    • Communication styles
    • Roles and responsibilities
    • Spiritual beliefs and values
    • Family mapping
    • Parenting expectations
    • Conflict Resolution and Conflict Management
    • Long-term goals/vision and more  

Our process does not involve a one-size-fits-all premarital counseling experience. Premarital counseling is placed in three (3) different categories:

  1. 6-Session Counseling Package - For couples who have never been married and/or do not have children. 
  2. 8-Session Counseling Package - For couples getting married who are 50-years of age or older.
  3. 10-Session Counseling Package - For couples who are divorced and/or have a child or children from previous relationship(s).   

Premarital counseling is not about creating a perfect relationship because there is no such thing. Premarital counseling is about empowering couples with practical skills, helping them gain a clear understanding, and fostering wisdom. We believe that healthy marriages are built intentionally - not by accident. 

If you know an engaged couple that has not considered premarital counseling, I encourage you to share this series with them and encourage them to get counseling before saying, "I do". 

As stated throughout this series, failing to prepare for a healthy and productive marriage is a lot like preparing to fail. We are committed to helping you avoid such a tragedy. 

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